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Glitch Social should collapse all instances of a toot when I collapse it in one column.
@skiant there was some discussion on this in https://github.com/glitch-soc/mastodon/pull/401 if you're interested
@Thib omg I just read about over-relying on Redux and I've got painful flashbacks.
I guess the answer is again that I should dev this alternative web client 
@skiant haha.
Haven't checked it out yet, but there is an alternative web client in active development: https://github.com/nolanlawson/pinafore
@Thib Yeah, I kinda like it, it's doing a lot of things I'd wanna do.
Not sure I'd be super comfortable contributing to it since the stack is a bit alien to me (but I can get over it), but I can try to at least suggest improvements.
@skiant this is more complex than what it sounds like honestly.
One reason for that is that you have an option to automatically-collapse “fav” and “boost” notifications, but you probably don't want this state to be shared across all instances of those toots…